If you’re a man looking for more women in your life then the only way to achieve that is by approaching them. Generally speaking women don’t approach men but unfortunately men don’t seem to approach women much either. This is sad because it leads to lonely men and lonely women.

Girls love being approached. They love the attention they get from men and they make themselves look pretty for that reason. Women enjoy talking about love and relationships a lot more than men do, and they are very receptive to approaches from males. They enjoy flirting, so give them a reason to flirt and they are more likely to be attracted to you.

It can be very difficult to approach women, especially without the benefit of some Dutch courage and experience with social interactions. Your anxiety can prevent you from approaching a woman, and illogical fear comes into play. Your mind starts to anticipate pain rather than pleasure. These primeval fears were key to man’s survival years ago when rejection could be disastrous. Fortunately you’re now in the 21^st century so those kind of worries no longer apply.

It is possible that you are also talking yourself out of any chances of success. By telling yourself you’re not good enough for this woman you are jeopardizing any hope of a relationship before you’ve even started. By allowing your mind to control you in this way you are doomed to failure. It is vitally important that you stop talking yourself down and start to adopt a more positive outlook.

Sometimes the best way to overcome your fear is just to go right out and face the situation. Your legs may be shaking but you can still go and talk to the woman of your dreams and say whatever comes into your mind. You will find it much easier this way, rather than building up a negative picture in your mind by overthinking.

It’s also important to get into the habit of talking to as many women as you can. After a while it becomes a lot easier, especially when you have no thoughts of a relationship in your mind at the time. Treat these interactions as learning experiences and don’t feel rejected if you’re unable to get a woman’s telephone number. Just get into the habit of talking to women you feel attracted to, and doing it without hesitation.

Approach women calmly whilst being aware of your unique masculine traits. Use your courage and willpower to achieve the results you want. Be brave and make the first approach.

You will soon get into the habit of interacting with women.  Even if you meet one woman a week you’ll start to develop an active social life and more confidence. Before long it will all come naturally to you and you’ll wonder what you were so worried about.